I went under the radar the last 3 days. I've been watching shows off my DVR with my daughter and just letting things cool off. I slipped into the abyss to lick my wounds. I am emerging like a chrysalis going into the butterfly stage of development. I am not in much pain anymore, except when I am doing the things I am not supposed to be doing. I am healing and that is a liberating thing. I also have been healing emotionally too. I learned a lot by being with myself and my children. Maybe this will help you too.
I learned that life is a journey and there is no predicting the outcome. The only thing you can control are the choices you make and they'll define who you are. Don't be so focused on the outcome that you miss the entire picture.
Everyone has a calling and our real job in life is to figure out what that is and get about the business of doing it. Our purpose- What is our purpose? What is my purpose? Do what you are meant to do and be joyful. When you find your purpose, it will light you up. A calling is your passion knowing you are exactly where you are supposed to be and what you are supposed to be doing. Everyone has their own "circle of influence" that is where the power is. We have the power to change someone's life. Everyone has a calling: EVERYONE. Are you listening?
Nobody but you is responsible for your own life!!!! Doesn't matter what your Momma did, doesn't matter what your Daddy didn't do, your ex's, your kids, your friends. We are ALL responsible for our own life. What is LIFE? It's energy! I am responsible for my own energy that I create for myself and the energy I BRING TO others. Be responsible with the energy you bring to me too. We all connect to each other in some way. We are ALL energy, the trees, flowers........ It's all like Newton's 3rd law of motion. For every action there is a equal and opposite reaction!!! This is so true. Everything you have done to me is already done to you. What you put out in this universe, it comes back. How do you want it to come back? Positive or Negative?
The Golden Rule: Treat other's like you want to be treated. All the energy we harbor to bring someone down or hurt someone is gonna turn around and slap us in the face hard and same with love, all the energy we bring to love people comes right back at us too. So THAT is why we are responsible for our own energy and our own life.
Another thing I learned in my abyss is about worthiness and unworthiness. When we feel unworthy that is why we have our addictions and hang ups and sadness by choice. Cause we don't feel worthy enough to own the life we were created for. Thinking we deserve to be happy and KNOWING we are worthy are totally two different things. We often block our own blessings because we don't feel good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, or worthy enough. We being here makes worthiness our birthright. WE ARE WORTHY!!!!
What is the one thing that everybody TRULY wants????? It's not money, fame and luxury as most might think. WE ALL WANT VALIDATION!!!!! Do you see me? Do you hear me? Does what I say mean anything to you? Everyone wants to be heard, with an open mind and an open heart. Validate people!!! What you say, matters to me!!!!!
The Secret to the Success of life? Surrender to a Higher Power or a Grace!!!! Whether you believe in God, a Spirit, something greater than you, or yourself, just let it in. Listen to the guidance of your life, it's always speaking to you. It gets louder and louder till you listen. Be still and KNOW IT. It's always there. What is whispering to you and what is it saying?
Last but not least and this ties into all of the above. Be a safe harbor for someone else. Do for them-connect with them, embrace them, liberate them, love somebody and spread that to two, then three........ Spreading your joy makes you feel powerful and useful and worthy. Make people think they matter so they KNOW that THEY DO MATTER!!! People matter!!!!!
Anya
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